Observing Communication
I was in an early childhood classroom at one particular
school. It was circle time, and the children and teacher were on the carpet.
Now I have been in this classroom before. One distinct thing I noticed was
whenever a certain young child would get his turn to talk, the teacher would
limit his conversation, by telling him
“we do not have time, please do not talk. I only want one word that begins with
our letter of the week.” He just like to talk. On this particular day the teacher was letting
each child answer a question about the new letter for the week. She would go
around the circle, and give each child a chance to speak. I noticed, and
observed when it was this young boy’s turn, he responded again with more than
one answer. Everyone in the circle looked baffled and all eyes were turn in his
direction. For a brief moment the teacher was caught off guard, however, she
quickly regained her composure before anyone except myself could noticed. The
young boy kept giving her words that began with the new letter of the week, and
would not let the next person have their turn.
The teacher could have established and taken into
consideration better teacher-child conversations with this student to make the
communication more affirming and effective. One of the strategies she could have
used was “teacher talk.” According to Dangle & Durden (2010) “the role of
power (who decides who talks, when, and about what).Do the experience and
language encourage children to initiate ideas and share regularly in the
conversation? Who controls what is said and done? Is there a balance of teacher
and child talk? Sharing power during conversations and allowing children to
initiate conversations maximizes children’s voices” (Durden, 2010) .
My thoughts are the interactions between the child and the
teacher were not favorable for the child. The kind of language, functions of
her language, and not promoting the child’s thinking, I believe hurt the child’s
feelings. It had a great impact on his sense of self- worth, because, in his
mind he may have thought he was being helpful providing more than one answer,
and he wanted to share what he knew with his peers. What better place than to
share what you learned than in circle time?
My insight from this observation is to never let your agenda
or planning get in the way of a young children expressing or communicating in
the classroom. I do not do this, because, I feel as though maybe at home the
child does not get to express or communicate as much with other adults and
children. I have learned to step back
and listen to what children are trying to tell me, then embrace it to affirm
effective communication. I also learned I do not have to do most of the talking
in a conversation with children. I can
keep their voices at the forefront of our relationships, so I can hear what they
are telling me. I can improve by being more sensitive, respectful, more acceptance towards others, more reflective,
listening more, and providing more space for each child to be themselves.
References
Durden, J. R. (2010, January). The nature of teacher
talk during small group activities. YC: Young Children, pp. 74-81.
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