Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions
I honestly can say in my life so far, I have not been the
target of microaggressions, that has cause a verbal or physical response.There
has been little to none microaggressions aim directly at me, however , I have
witness microaggressions happen to other people. I remember in the beginning of
this school year, all the preschool teachers, including myself had to do intake
the week before the children started school. The teacher next to my class had
just finished an intake on a young girl from Africa. She hurriedly walk into
our room and said,” I must be the first white face, that girl has ever seen.
She would not answer me at all, or look directly in my face. Maybe her parents
have taught her this at home,” she said.
Just because, you have been in the early childhood
profession for over 20 years, it does not give anyone the right to assume, that
just because, a child will not respond to you has anything to do with the color
of your skin.
I thought, here we have an early childhood professional
supposedly to be a well-seasoned, well trained veteran, acting completely
unprofessional around her colleagues, who were also African Americans also.
I did not know how to feel at first. I felt sorry for the
little girl because, I knew if she was going to be in this teacher’s class,
already the teacher had a myth about her and her family, just because, they
were from another country. I felt at the time this teacher did not need to be
teaching, if she had any biases and could not reach a deeper understanding of
diverse cultures.
This microaggression, had only affirmed to me, what Dr. Sue
said in his interview. Dr. Sue explained,” the most dangerous type of
microaggressions, is microinvalidations when “well intentioned individuals who
see themselves as having good intentions look at people of color as not being
able to really get the job done. The people of color are denied the right to be
hired, or given a chance. Microinvalidations is also when the person never has
the ability to self-correct, because they are unaware of their biases towards
people of color” (Sue, 2011) .
I felt because of the color of this girl’s skin the teacher had denied her the
right to just be herself, and maybe did not have a chance of not being
scrutinize.
Sue, D. D. (2011). "Microaggressions in Everyday
Life". (L. E. Inc., Interviewer)
At least your colleague got one thing right: the child probably was taught the cultural norm for eye contact at home. Assumptions are dangerous things, especially when made regarding cultures different from one's own.
ReplyDeleteI agree that assuming could be harmful to some young children's development. We have to be careful not to have biases when receiving children. It is important that we love and care for them all the same.
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